“But if we do that, what if… happens? THEN what are we going to do?” It came out in a conversation, awakening us to “What if?!” What if, what? What if she learns some hard lessons, and begins to take on responsibility? What if we, her parents, take that F-word by the horns and put it where it belongs? Fear, the other F-word, can make people do (or keep them from doing) lots of things. [...]